Emails and life

This past five days have been a whirlwind for me. A good friend lost her mom, there has been tons of emails about Moving Difference achievements and then there has been the real life of violence here in the United States and even in other parts of the world.

Somewhere in the middle of all that, most of us are struggling to pay the bills, to be healthy, to have a job that we enjoy or at least can work at with expectations of decent wage. It is life.

It is hard to balance in the mind such small short things with such great loss of life daily. I haven’t been able to sit down at this computer and put my thoughts on paper because I don’t know how to in moments, followed by moments of complete anger and pain at the world, followed by moments of sadness for all.

There is no one answer to all the problems in the world. Sadly love and peace isn’t an answer just like war and anger isn’t an answer.  It is back to balance of everything. We can’t be a great world if we can’t respect each other and live in harmony. It isn’t us vs. them, cause we are all one people. Always.

So what do we do? We keep going  forward, we know our neighbors, we reach out to our fellow humans and we make an impact. We keep moving forward toward equality, towards a peaceful existence, towards a better future for all.

In that spirit, I ask that you think about doing an extra hour of Moving Difference this summer with a human touch. Meet your neighbors, talk to the mail person, strike up a conversation with a complete stranger, listen, connect, reply and more than anything acknowledge people. Don’t let fear rule the day, simply say hi, smile, or stop and said something nice. You might get a reply and you might not, but you aren’t doing it for a reply, you are doing to for the world and that is bigger than both of us.

I am off to do my extra hour right now, holding a sign on the busy corner I know, it simply says “Have a great Tuesday!!”

BTW – you are amazing people, all of you, MDY5 hit over 250k in completed hours on Sunday. Thanks!20160320_143434

 

 

 

Fourth of July!

For most of the world, Fourth of July is just a Monday.  Another Monday of this hot long summer. A Monday.

Some people in America celebrate Fourth of July with a BBQ and backyard picnics, some travel with friends and relatives, some travel by themselves, some still have to go to work and pay the bills like the rest of the world.

Happy Fourth of July – even if it is a boring Monday morning!!100_3698

Second Saturday

It is the second Saturday of MDY5 and things are clipping along. Things are more than great, awesome is an understatement.

And it is all because of wonderful people like yourselves taking an hour and ding something good for someone else. It is quite a gift as time is precious.

It is nice to see that good with all the bad that is happening in the world, that people are making the difference to overcome, to be the good.100_3788

Walking a family dog for a cancer patient, or cleaning the tub for an elderly person or cleaning out your closet to give to the local charity store doesn’t seem life changing and news worthy but it is because you are doing it.

It would be nice to see the New York Times headlines said Nothing bad to report today but we have these projects that need some people to come and help at. Thanks!

But we don’t live in that world, we haven’t for a long time. I will hope for it though, and maybe we will some day. After all,7.5 billion people should be able to figure this out.

Keep plugging away at your hour a week, we will be here for you all summer if you need ideas and of course to report your hours too! (Quick note on that: if you are reporting your hours, please put “Reporting Hours” in the subject line and please give a detailed description of what you did and how many hours so we can log it properly. Thanks!)

You are amazing and wonderful people keep up the good work!!!

 

The Common Question-Weekend Edition

Quick note – On the weekends – we are just going to post once because most of you happy people are out doing your hour and then some making the world a better place. (And it is better to have you out there doing your hour than reading a silly post that you can read at work on Monday!)

On a daily basis, the common question of why to do Moving Difference comes up. Basically it is a two parts – why are we doing it and why should you do it.

To answer the first part of why we do it – for us, it is simple. Moving Difference is one of the many ways that we give back to the world. We can’t afford to cut a check to every worthy charity on earth, we can’t help every worthy cause in the world. We can’t do this by ourselves. We struggled for years to attempt to try to do it all and we still struggle in this attempt. We are humans after all. Moving Difference allows us the opportunity to give back in a greater sense of it all, as in we all are giving back together. United to making an impact and striving forward in many areas to making a moving difference. Plus we do our own MDY hours outside of working on Moving Difference. We have cleaned parks, walked dogs, worked at a food bank, amongst the thousand of other things. We are happy to do it and love doing it, it is our passion.

To answer the second part of why you should do it. Well, we have heard lots of good reasons and a few reasons of “Mom & Dad are making us” but all in all it is a personal reason to give back that fuels it. Moving Difference doesn’t exist with you, period. By doing Moving Difference and doing your hour a week over the summer, well, it is back to the simple reasoning that you too can’t afford to help every worthy charity and cause in the world, no one human can, but a bunch of us can together. The world is a very small place and life is very short, so your reasons to do Moving Difference might overlap with someone’s else or might not. That doesn’t matter, what matters is that you do something that gives back to your community, your neighborhood, our world. Doing is the key, you doing whatever your heart’s desire to help give back, well, welcome to being a part of Moving Difference.

Remember there is always free cheese in a mousetrap, good luck with your Moving Difference hours this weekend, see you on Monday!100_3698

And so it begins…MDY5

And so it begins. MDY5 has officially kicked off!

Share the MDY5 love! Tell your friends and family!

83,334 people doing an hour a week over the summer of 2016 means 1 million hours of giving back to our communities. 

Check out the tabs above, follow us on Twitter andd Facebook. Be part of an amazing summer of giving back. It all starts with you.

And thanks!

The world is an awesome, amazing place because you are in it,                                               don’t ever forget that. – Jeny, founder of Moving Difference

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Tomorrow is just a day away…

Moving Difference Year 5 kicks off tomorrow.

I am still as nervous as I was 5 years ago, this year seems almost unreal.

Our goal for Year 5 is 1 million volunteer hours from June 21, 2016 to September 21,2016

One perfect summer of giving back. We are sticking to our founding roots, so all the details are below and of course on the website here too.

Time to read thru and start planning your MDY5 goal, join us starting tomorrow!

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The Goal: One Amazing Summer 2016!! Goal of 1 million hours of giving forward time and talents to your/our communities!!!

The Plan: From June 21, 2016 to September 21, 2016, with our friends and family & your friends and family, we become a Moving Difference. On September 21, 2016, no matter where in the world we are, we all watch that sunset together.

What is a Moving Difference? Glad you ask. It is spending at least an hour a week all summer long getting out there and moving to help someone or something in your community. It is picking up trash at the park, it is reading books to sick kids, it is handing water out to the homeless, it is gathering a group of friends to paint over graffiti, it is finally cleaning out that monster of a closet and get those clothes to charity, it is volunteering with your group or church, it is planting some flowers for an older neighbor, it is making dinner for a shut-in, it is walking dogs at the shelter, it is a garage sale with proceeds going to charity, it is anything and everything that gets you out moving and helping your community in any form or fashion.

How do I do Moving Difference?       Easy!

•              Join the Moving Difference on Facebook. This is your way to connect with people like you wanting to be a Moving Difference. It will have tips, suggestions and fun items for the entire summer. There is  a Moving Difference Facebook Page (http://www.facebook.com/pages/Moving-Difference/457038127655525)

•              Pick something that you want to do in your community to help out. Commit to doing it at least an hour a week or 12 hours over this summer. You can do the same thing all summer or 12 different things. The choice of what to do is completely yours! (If you need help picking something, just ask!)

•              Then DO IT!! Get out there and become that Moving Difference. Even invite some of your friends and family to join you when you do the Moving Difference activity.

•              And of course, when you have done it – come back to the Moving Difference on Facebook, Twitter or email us and tell us what you did! This way everybody’s hours get logged and we can all inspire each other to get out there. You can even post an “action” photo!!

•              Aren’t on Facebook? That’s cool, you can follow Moving Difference on twitter (@movingdifferenc) or be part of the action with https://movingdifference.wordpress.com or even email us at movingdifference@yahoo.com.

What’s the result? If everything goes as planned, together we will have done 1 million hours of Moving Difference (or maybe more depending on how many people get involved!)- Think about it – 1 million hours of actually helping our communities, preventing just another “boring” summer, getting out there are moving ourselves (despite the hot and sticky) and we will have enjoyed one amazing summer together and one perfect sunset!! That is pretty cool!!

Can I invite my friends and families get involved in the Moving Difference? YES and please!!  Everybody is welcomed to be a Moving Difference. Please help us to help get the word out on this awesome project!! This project is truly about sharing the experience of getting out there and moving and being part of the world.

What about this sunset thing?  It is a sweet way to end being part of Moving Difference and the Summer 2016! This will be an once-in-a-lifetime sunset!  No matter where in the world you are, stopping and enjoying the sunset of September 21, 2016. It’s the last day of summer and the perfect way to reflect on an amazing project that we all did together.

Other stuff to know: It seems simple because it is. This isn’t a corporate ad trick, bleeding hearts pleas or anything like that. It is just humans, in our own little way trying to do our little part and make the world a better place. We aren’t asking for the moon or your money, we are inviting you to spend some of your time to be a difference with us by moving. An hour a week for twelve weeks means 83,334 people like you and us can easily do a million hours!! And we know life happens, so if you can’t do one week, do it the next – just keep moving and just keep being a difference.

And one other thing: We know that money is tight, times are tough for many people and we appreciate you simply taking the time. Whatever you do as part of Moving Difference over this summer, THANKS!

The last #sunday thought

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This is the last #Sunday Thought of MDY3 –
It has been an amazing summer and tomorrow is that amazing sunset that we all have been working towards….

one more sleep before the last sunset of this summer…

one last Sunday to go and do, one more thing, one more hour or even all of it again…..

It has been a busy summer – I honestly in my heart am a bit sad that it is at the end….

I even cried this morning thinking about this MDY3, its hours, its goals, its people, its everything….

As I sip this tea, I think this last quote should be directly from me.

But I am lost for words…… the only thing I can think is –

 

Thank you.  You are amazing people doing amazing things. Thank you very much.

Truly thank you.

#Sunday Thought – silly hat style

With SO MANY MANY MANY MANY people out there in the world doing the Silly Hat Big Clean this weekend – (Big thank you BTW!)

this quote is for you!

 

“Grab your coat, and get your hat,

Leave your worry on the doorstep,

Just direct your feet,

To the sunny side of the street.”

 

Dorothy Fields

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Guest Blog – Side one of a two-sided coin

This week’s guest blogger is thoughts from the side of the Non-profit. We are doing these counterpoints to show that we are all not that far apart in the grand scheme of things…comments welcomed….

 

From the Non-Profit Side by K.F.

Establishing and maintaining a non-profit organization takes a lot of hard work, committed partners, and even some luck. As the Executive Director of an international non-profit, I can tell you that having a group of individuals committed to the cause is vital to the success of any organization. From the day to day activities to the direct oversight of programs and staff, volunteers tend to be the most committed individuals within any non-profit. From running programs, to direct donor contact, to fundraising, to grunt jobs like mailing letters….volunteers are an integral part of any non-profit. Without volunteers, administrative costs would be significantly higher, programs would have less funding, and even Boards of Directors would be understaffed. But with all the positive attributes of volunteers, there are certainly draw-backs too.

While so many volunteers are dedicated, passion driven, and reliable, many are not. Let’s face it, volunteers have a long list of daily activities frequently including caring for family members, and careers. Like everyone, life is full of expected and unexpected craziness. Even the most dedicated people struggle every day just to get food on the table and kids to bed on time. It’s easy for volunteering to frequently take a back seat to kids, school, family activities, and paying jobs. However, when volunteers don’t fulfill their obligations, programs and organizations suffer.

For 12 years, I’ve been the Executive director of a completely volunteer-run non-profit. Yep, no paid staff at all. This has led to very low administrative costs and volunteer staff around the world. However, it also has prevented quick growth and expansion. Volunteers, rightfully so, frequently view volunteering as something they do in their free time. At the end of the day when work is done, kids are in bed, and a little free time is available, it’s hard to get motivated to do another job. Weekends are packed with a variety of activities or chores that need to get done, and volunteering doesn’t always make the top of the priority list.

While most of us can understand the dilemma, when life gets in the way of volunteering, programs suffer. For instance, often volunteers are in charge of sending thank you notes to donors. Ensuring that donors know their gift is invaluable is vital to any organization. If thank you notes aren’t sent in a timely manner, donors can feel taken for granted. When donors know their gifts are appreciated they are more likely to donate again and tells others to do the same. An increase of personal contact with donors leads to an increase in donations. Unfortunately the opposite is also true.

Additionally, volunteers often resign from their duties with little or no notice. Because the volunteer position is not generally viewed as a “job”, volunteers frequently feel they don’t have an obligation to provide notice of their departure in advance as they would a paying job. Most of us have had a conversation with our friends or family about how we must start “saying no” to leading or participating in extra activities like heading the school’s bake sale, or being on yet another committee at church. In the frazzled world we live in, those conversations (at least in my house) frequently take place over a glass of wine with friends after a long, exhausting week. We feel empowered to set limits for ourselves and want to make a change immediately. No one can fault us for that. The problem arises for those organizations we have previously committed to, when we simply make the phone call or send the email on Monday morning saying, “It’s been fun, but I need to simplify my life. I hope you find someone else soon.” What volunteers don’t always understand is that the impact they are making is HUGE. Maybe they feel underappreciated, or maybe quitting is all about their personal lives and stress, but either way ending a volunteer position without the same type of notice given to an employer has a negative impact on the organization and other volunteers.

On the organizational side, I’ve heard similar concerns from volunteers. Organizations that make quick decisions about ending volunteer positions or changing the way individuals are allowed to volunteer can make those volunteers feel like they were simply spinning their wheels and not making a real impact. Sadly, while many organizations want their volunteers to treat their positions as if they are employees, volunteers are not always give the same consideration when changes are discussed or necessary. Volunteers are frequently the most knowledgeable about their positions and needs within a program. Countless volunteers have been shocked when they learn we have job descriptions for their positions, ask their options about programs on a regular basis, and have deadlines we expect to be met. Finding the balance between expecting the volunteer and the organization to treat the position as a “real job” is difficult, but vital if organizations want less turn-over and professional workers.

Training for volunteers is also frequently lacking on an organizational level. Volunteers want to help, but they also want to know the organization’s expectations clearly and want to do their jobs well. Organizations that don’t put time into teaching volunteers exactly what is needed only contribute to the problem of high volunteer turn over and a lack of prioritizing the volunteer work. Motivating volunteers is often over-looked, especially when taking time up-front to train and educate volunteers about the organization’s mission can seem more time consuming than it’s worth.

Unfortunately this applies to members of an organization’s Board of Directors (BOD). Often individuals interested of being on a BOD have wonderfully altruistic motivations for doing so….they want to use their professional skills to make a difference around the world. However, without in-depth information about programs, board expectations, cultural considerations, future goals, and organizational history, potential BOD members have difficulty committing. For instance, if board members feel as if there are no guidelines for choosing and keep board members, there is little motivation for them to accept a position or continue on the board. Even an interview process before offering a board position to a new member increases the likelihood a new board member will be committed and active on the board. Regardless, there is no way to ensure a board member will follow the job description and be a productive member of the board, but organizations that don’t have a clear process for finding committed member will be less likely to have BOD members who are willing to work hard and be productive, rather than having a line item on a resume.

Like other volunteers, a wide range of other commitments often take priority over board obligations. However, additional problems like different ideas of the board’s role, and personality conflicts potentially lead to stalled work. While it’s rare that overt conflicts occur, underlying frustrations around how to problem solve, appropriate ways to budget or plan for the future can cause meetings to feel as if they don’t move forward or come to a conclusions. Individuals who are risk takers and prefer to plan based on where they want an organization to be in the future often have difficulties agreeing on a plan with those who are more conservative and want to plan based on the past.   Those with a social work background, have a hard time focusing on evaluations of staff or finances, while those with an accounting background are more focused on concrete information and statistics.

At the end of the day, every non-profit organization knows that volunteers in any form are vital to their work. Their tireless efforts are more often than not a huge asset to any organization. While there are always difficulties within any organization given personality differences, job overlap, and other commitments, it’s clear volunteers are invaluable. If organizations want volunteers to be invested in their work, those organizations must also be invested in providing volunteers all they need to be successful. Without effort for both sides, the volunteer system within any organization will fail. Those served by non-profits around the world deserve better.